Female Orgasm During Sexual Intercourse

One of the very most common myths about the feminine orgasm is that women should only reach orgasm through vaginal intercourse.

That is definitely not the case but it's a fantasy that's caused us to take women's sexual needs for granted for a lengthy time. This myth actually started with Sigmund Freud, the developer of psychoanalysis, who'd recognized that women could easily reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation. Freud dismissed this kind of stimulation as juvenile and believed it had been very important to women to be sexually mature by focusing only on vaginal stimulation to achieve orgasms.

The issue is that the vagina wasn't created for orgasms. It doesn't have the concentrated nerve endings this one finds in the clitoris or in the top of a penis, for example.

Consequently of Freud's determination, women who couldn't reach orgasm through vaginal intercourse were considered to possess some sort of psychological impairment. A variety of methods were devised in an effort to “liberate” women from their reliance on the clitoris for sexual pleasure.

Only in recent decades has society begun talking openly in regards to the women's right to take pleasure from sex and to achieve orgasm in whatever manner worked for her.

Another common myth about the feminine orgasm is that only women fake orgasms.

Although this book is approximately female orgasms, I do believe its very important to both men and women to understand that orgasms aren't going to take place during every sexual encounter. About one-fifth of men admitted they've faked an orgasm with a partner. Their reasons for faking are exactly like women's: they don't really want their partners to be disappointed.

Orgasms don't always come easily in a partnership. Sure, once we masturbate we could probably log off everytime because we realize our anatomies and we realize what works. Our sexual partners have to understand these exact things with time and, above all, with this help.

Again, faking orgasms isn't the clear answer for either sex. It really complicates the matter and prevents both partners from having a really fulfilling sexual encounter.